Why Limiting Your Child's Screen Time Is Ineffective

Modern Parenting Tips
By
Cyber Dive
Sep 20, 2022
4 min read

As a parent, how many times have you been told that your kid is spending too much time online? Or that more than two hours in front of their phone is excessive screen time that’s guaranteed to negatively affect their mental health?

My guess is you’ve heard it a lot and have been convinced that limitation was your best option.

At the end of the day, your decision to limit screen time is completely up to you and what you think is best for your kids. But, before you decide, think about this…

What if screen time isn’t the villain?

We know, that might sound crazy but the research is there.

Recent studies have been conducted on kids to test if excessive screen time links to a decrease in mental health. Little evidence was found that directly correlated the amount of time spent in front of a screen to a kid’s overall well-being.

More and more pediatricians and researchers believe that it’s not about the amount of time spent on screens and more about the type of online experiences kids are having.

So in short, screen time isn’t the real problem.

Let’s think about it this way.

What problems do screen time limits really fix?

Of course, smartphones makes it extremely easy for us to track our kid’s screen time and set limits on specific apps. This encourages them to take a step away from their phone but it doesn’t mean they leave the emotional impact of what they saw online behind.

Consider these two situations that could happen to your kid.

1) They sign in to their Instagram account and see three new comments on their latest post. The first comment says “It’s not too late to delete this”, the second says “this trend is so last week”, and the third says “you’re embarrassing yourself”. Within seconds they’ve become a victim of cyberbullying. They delete the post and spend the rest of the day worrying about what others think of them, nervous to go to school the next day.

OR

2) They jump on TikTok and spend over an hour scrolling through their For You Page. This curated feed is filled with videos about baseball, magic tricks, ways to be eco-friendly, yummy dessert recipes, and creatively edited videos. After following a few new accounts and liking some videos, they put their phone down, with a smile on their face, and go downstairs for dinner.

Was the amount of time the issue?

Of course not. It’s what happened during the time that affected their mood.

The argument for setting and implementing screen time limits is usually to protect your child from these situations, but would it would have changed anything?

The reality is, negative experiences can happen anywhere at any time.

And limitation isn’t the answer.

Restricting your kid’s screen time and online access could even lead to sneaky and defiant behavior, which undermines the overall goal of strengthening your relationship. This is where your involvement can make all the difference.

Introducing Online Freedom

Don’t get rid of social media; teach through it! Allowing your kid the freedom to explore with your active involvement ultimately results in the development of long-term, healthy digital habits for children.

They need a parent’s guidance to teach them how to:

  • Post and interact in a way that represents them in a positive light
  • Recognize what content leaves them feeling confident and inspired
  • Establish social media expectations
  • Handle certain online situations

The goal is that, over time, they’ll learn how their online actions affect themselves and others. Rather than attempting to shield them from negative content and weakening that trust, you can leverage their time spent online as a tool to become closer and strengthen your relationship.

So, how can I become involved in my child’s online life?

If you’re asking this question, you’re one step ahead.

Restrictions and limitations are an unreliable solution to monitoring your kid’s online activity and can leave you with a blind spot that affects your relationship with them.

So, what do you do?

Say Hello to Aqua One

With children spending more and more time in front of their digital devices, it’s more evident than ever that parents need to get involved in this aspect of their life.

But, there hasn’t been a way until now.

Instead of encouraging restrictions and screen time, we created the Aqua One, a fully functional smartphone with unlimited parental monitoring capabilities. Cyber Dive’s platform is a powerful parenting tool by bridging the gap between what you think your kid is doing online versus what they’re actually doing.

How does it work?

Our web application gives you access to every detail of their online activity in your Cyber Dive Parent Dashboard. Every time your kid downloads a new app or watches a TikTok or even makes a Google search, you’ll be right there.

Your Parent Dashboard unlocks their online world like no other “solution” before…

Not only does the Aqua One provide this consistent activity access, but it comes installed with our one-of-a-kind Mental Health Check feature. This feature prompts your kid to answer age-based questions about different aspects of their life that may be affecting their mental wellness. Rather than being reactive about their mental health, you have the tool you’ll need to proactively nurture their emotional well-being.

How can Aqua One be used as a parenting tool?

Let’s be real. It is likely that, at some point, your kid will come across online content that makes them feel uncomfortable or brings up questions they didn’t have before.

When this happens, your involvement will allow you to know when it is time to initiate tough conversations about topics like mental health, exploring one’s sexuality, bullying, or self-esteem. You have the opportunity to step in and be a resource and support system for your kid when they need it.

With this insight, you can make a more informed decision as to whether or not limiting screen time is the most effective way to improve your kid’s online experiences or if monitoring will benefit their habits long-term!

Ready to get started? Secure the revolutionary Aqua-One here!

Elizabeth Smart, Elizabeth Smart Foundation
"It's encouraging to know that, as parents, you do not have to be left in the dark, you can be involved. That's quite a powerful tool."
Elizabeth Smart
Elizabeth Smart Foundation
Georgann Yaya, AZCentral
"Helping parents prepare for the gamut of situations to which social media opens the door has made [Cyber Dive] venture more valuable than the bottom line."
Georgann Yara
azcentral
Billy Harfosh, iHeartRadio
"If we're concerned about stranger danger... what about a stranger getting into your child's direct messages? It can be just as dangerous, if not more so."
Billy Harfosh
iHeartRadio
Desiree Briggs, Mama Army
"[Aqua One] was just launched and is going to change the way that our children grow up in a technology-driven world."
Desiree Briggs
Co-Founder of The Mama Army
Pinal County Sheriff Mark Lamb
"As a Lawman and a parent I love seeing solutions for protecting children from the child predators. This Aqua One phone helps parents and even addresses the mental health of the child. Well done Cyber Dive."
Sheriff Mark Lamb
Sheriff of Pinal County Arizona
Dawn Van Camp, Mama Army
"In a society that relies so much on virtual connection, it is necessary that we teach our children how to navigate and use technology responsibly."
Dawn Van Camp
Co-Founder of The Mama Army
Phoenix Dream Center CEO Brian Steele
“One of the neatest parts about the tool is that it gives insight into not only the safety of what my child is doing out there but what my child is thinking.”
Brian Steele
CEO of Phoenix Dream Center
Larissa Marulli, Moms.com
“Being informed of your child's social media habits isn't just beneficial from a safety standpoint. You'll get an inside look at what your kid is into and enjoying.”
Larissa Marulli
moms.com
Elizabeth Smart, Elizabeth Smart Foundation
"It's encouraging to know that, as parents, you do not have to be left in the dark, you can be involved. That's quite a powerful tool."
Elizabeth Smart
Elizabeth Smart Foundation
Georgann Yaya, AZCentral
"Helping parents prepare for the gamut of situations to which social media opens the door has made [Cyber Dive] venture more valuable than the bottom line."
Georgann Yara
azcentral
Billy Harfosh, iHeartRadio
"If we're concerned about stranger danger... what about a stranger getting into your child's direct messages? It can be just as dangerous, if not more so."
Billy Harfosh
iHeartRadio
Dawn Van Camp, Mama Army
"In a society that relies so much on virtual connection, it is necessary that we teach our children how to navigate and use technology responsibly."
Dawn Van Camp
Co-Founder of The Mama Army
Pinal County Sheriff Mark Lamb
"As a Lawman and a parent I love seeing solutions for protecting children from the child predators. This Aqua One phone helps parents and even addresses the mental health of the child. Well done Cyber Dive."
Sheriff Mark Lamb
Sheriff of Pinal County Arizona
Desiree Briggs, Mama Army
"[Aqua One] was just launched and is going to change the way that our children grow up in a technology-driven world."
Desire Briggs
Co-Founder of The Mama Army
Phoenix Dream Center CEO Brian Steele
“One of the neatest parts about the tool is that it gives insight into not only the safety of what my child is doing out there but what my child is thinking.”
Brian Steele
CEO of Phoenix Dream Center
Larissa Marulli, Moms.com
“Being informed of your child's social media habits isn't just beneficial from a safety standpoint. You'll get an inside look at what your kid is into and enjoying.”
Larissa Marulli
moms.com

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